September 2026 Stony Brook CARE Newsletter

Posted Date: 09/11/26 (02:28 PM)


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CARE September 2026 Newsletter

Supporting Healthy Minds and Bodies, A Monthly Resource for Families

In this newsletter

🖥️  Virtual Parent Workshop: Sept. 29 at 6:15 pm —Tips for Transitioning Back to School 
🧠  Behavioral Health: How to Ease the Transition Back to School
Extra: Supporting Neurodivergent Children
🏃Kids' Wellness: Concussion and Kids: Getting Back to School and Sports Safely 
Extra: Concussion Red Flags
💡Research Opportunities for Children with Autism
Resource: 
💙 What CARE Can Do for You 

FREE Virtual Parent Workshop

Back-to-School Reset: Helping Kids Ease into the New School Year

From late summer bedtimes to packed school-day schedules, getting back into the rhythm of school can be an adjustment for the whole family. New routines, academic expectations, friendships and the pressures of a busy school year can be especially challenging for children who are starting school for the first time —  or who have struggled with the transition in the past.

Join Rosemarie Montecalvo, DO, a child and adolescent psychiatrist at Stony Brook, for practical strategies to help children of all ages make the transition from summer to school with greater confidence and less stress.

Workshop Details
🗓 Tuesday, September 29
🕡 6:15 pm
💻 Virtual (Microsoft Teams)
⏱ 45 minutes + Q&A

What You Will Learn
Dr. Montecalvo will share practical tips for:
  • Getting children back on a healthy sleep schedule
  • Establishing routines that make school mornings easier
  • Managing screen time and electronics
  • Helping children cope with school-related worries and anxiety
  • Supporting children who may need additional help with the transition
  • Creating a positive, supportive environment at home
  • Knowing when a child's struggles may warrant additional support

Meet the Expert
Dr. Montecalvo is a double board-certified psychiatrist in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Health at Stony Brook.  She works primarily with children and families in an outpatient setting. Her clinical interests include school avoidance, mood disorders, anxiety, and neurodevelopmental conditions like autism and ADHD. She is also a native Long Islander and mom of twin toddlers.

Join Workshop on Microsoft Teams

Meeting ID: 280 668 842 108 169
Passcode: 89oG64Hp


Dial in by phone
+1 347-630-9468,,59694462# United States, New York City
Phone conference ID: 596 944 62#

BEHAVIORAL HEALTH

Back-to-School Readiness: Helping Your Child Start the School Year Strong

A new school year brings new opportunities — and a chance for families to reset routines that may have relaxed over the summer. Here are some small steps you can take to make transition go smoothly. 

“Problems can arise from difficult interactions with peers and teachers, difficulty with learning and schoolwork, or a general preference to be doing fun things outside of school,” says Rosemarie A. Montecalvo, DO, Assistant Clinical Professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at Stony Brook Medicine. “Getting older also means increasing academic demands and juggling a lot all at once during the school year.”

Start With Sleep
One of the most important ways parents can help children prepare for school is by gradually returning to a consistent sleep schedule. Teens, in particular, may have shifted to much later bedtimes and wake-up times during the summer. “Parents should set a bedtime and wake up time, and help their children stick to it,” says Dr. Montecalvo. “This means shutting down all electronics and screens about one hour before bedtime and encouraging less mentally stimulating activities before bed like reading or journaling.”

Try these simple strategies:
  • Gradually move bedtime and wake-up times earlier 
  • Establish a calming bedtime routine
  • Turn off screens about an hour before bedtime
  • Prepare backpacks, lunches and clothes the night before
  • Make time for breakfast

Create Structure
Predictable routines can make school days easier and help children feel secure. Establish a regular homework time and a quiet, comfortable place to work. Encourage children to take short breaks and recognize their effort  — not just their grades. Be sure to make time for healthy meals, snacks, water and daily physical activity or time outdoors.

Set Clear Expectations Around Screens
Getting back to school may mean adjusting time spent on on video games, social media and other electronics. Set clear expectations about when and where devices can be used, particularly around bedtime and homework. 

The American Academy of Pediatrics offers a Family Media Plan to help families create a plan that works for them.

Stay Connected
A successful transition isn't just about schedules and routines. Children may have worries about new teachers, classmates, schoolwork or simply leaving behind the freedom of summer.

Be available to listen without immediately trying to solve the problem. Instead of asking, “How was your day?” try questions that encourage conversation, such as What went well today?” or “What was the hardest part of your day?

Dr. Montecalvo recommends making these conversations a regular part of family life. “You could even turn it into a regular dinner topic where each family member states the best part and the worst part of their day,” she says.

Remember that adjustment takes time. Structure, consistency, connection and patience can help children of all ages start the school year feeling more confident , support and ready to learn.
 

Supporting Kids Who Need Extra Help Going Back to School

“Neurodivergent children are more likely to experience difficulty returning to school than their neurotypical peers,” says Dr. Montecalvo. “School is a very stimulating environment — there are crowded hallways, loud cafeterias, bright lights, difficult peer interactions, etc.” 

Complicating these physical stimulants, “there is also a lot to mentally juggle as far as assignments, homework, deadlines, and remembering to bring the right materials back and forth to school,” she says.
 
These demands can make it harder for some children to focus, learn and feel comfortable at school. Parents can help by establishing predictable routines at home, preparing for changes in advance and working with the school to identify supports that may help their child succeed. 

At the same time, Dr. Montecalvo emphasizes the importance of school. "School is  necessary for development.” 

If your child is struggling, talk with their teacher, school counselor or pediatrician about available supports. You can also call the CARE line at (631) 628-1111.

Children with conditions such as ADHD may qualify for accommodations through a 504 Plan, while an Individualized Education Program (IEP) may be appropriate for children whose disability significantly affects their educational performance or ability to access learning.

The goal is to make sure children have the supports they need to access their education and thrive at school.

KIDS WELLNESS

What Parents Need to Know About Concussions

As children head back to school and fall sports get underway, parents may be thinking about more than school supplies and sports equipment. Bumps and collisions are part of many youth sports, making it important to understand concussions — and what to do if one occurs.

The good news is that most children recover from a concussion with appropriate care. “Statistically speaking, almost everyone recovers with proper care,” says Robert Bodroghy, MD, an assistant professor of neurology at Stony Brook Medicine.

What is a concussion?
A concussion occurs when a blow or other impact to the head temporarily changes how the brain normally works. Symptoms can include headache, dizziness, nausea, difficulty concentrating, memory problems and changes in mood or sleep.

Because symptoms can be general and may not appear immediately, it can be difficult to determine whether a child has suffered a concussion at the moment of injury. Symptoms may develop over the next 48 to 72 hours.

“If your child has a head injury, they should be evaluated by a medical professional, particularly if symptoms develop or worsen,” says Dr. Bodroghy.  For warning signs that require prompt medical attention, see “Know the Red Flags, below.

When can my child return to school?
Contrary to the common perception that children with concussions should go home, sit in a dark room and avoid all activity (which actually prolongs recovery), most children can gradually resume their normal routines relatively quickly. 

Instead, once a child is feeling better and can manage normal activities at home, they can generally begin returning to school. “Appropriate care and rest are needed, but you don’t need to avoid any activities of daily living,” Dr. Bodroghy says. 

If a child is not ready for a full school day,  school personnel can help provide temporary academic accommodations while the child eases back into the classroom. Work with your pediatrician and school to determine the best approach, he advises.

When can my child return to sports?
Returning to athletics — particularly contact sports — requires more caution and should be individualized based on the severity of the injury and the child's recovery.

“A serious concussion that includes brain bleeds or seizures will necessarily be handled differently than a milder case,” says Dr. Bodroghy.

Before returning to full participation, student-athletes should complete a gradual, monitored “return-to-play” progression, typically overseen by qualified professional, once they can tolerate normal daily activities and a full day of school without significant symptoms.

“The message is, ‘Return to learn before returning to play,’” says Dr. Brodroghy.

The progression typically moves from light aerobic exercise to more intense exercise, sport-specific drills, non-contact practice and, finally, full-contact practice. Each step is generally separated by at least 24 hours, and athletes should only advance if symptoms do not return. 
 

Know the Red Flags: When a Head Injury Needs Medical Attention

Most bumps to the head are not serious, but some symptoms following a head injury require prompt medical attention. Here are some warning signs parents should watch for:

  • Severe or worsening headache.  “If your child complains of a 10 out of 10 headaches, it needs to be evaluated in an emergency department,” says Dr. Bodroghy. “A progressively worsening headache – for example, one that starts out at a 6 out of 10 and worsens to a 9 out of 10 – should also be evaluated.
  • Memory problems. Poor short-term memory and difficulty forming new memories can signal a concussion,” says Dr. Brodroghy.
  • Repeatedly asking the same  questions. If your child repeats the same question -- "Where am I" or "What happened?" or seems unable to remember what occurred, they should be evaluated.
  • Weakness, tingling, or numbness in one arm or leg. These symptoms, particularly when they affect one arm or leg, warrant prompt medical attention.
  • Severe dizziness or vertigo“The sensation of a room spinning around you can signal a concussion,” he says. 
  • Nausea and vomiting. Severe headaches can spark both of these symptoms, but if your child vomits more than once after hitting their head,  head to the emergency department.
  • Difficulty waking.  While sleep is vital to healing the rattled brain, if your child is spending more and more time sleeping and is progressively more difficult to rouse, it could be a sign of something more serious. 
  • Loss of consciousness. Losing consciousness for a few seconds or even a few minutes following  the injury might not signal a more serious problem, but if your child is out for 30 minutes an evaluation by a medical professional is warranted.

Autism Research Opportunities

Stony Brook Medicine Autism & Neurodiversity Lab

The Stony Brook Medicine Autism and Neurodiversity Lab is recruiting families for three research opportunities designed to improve understanding, treatment and support for autistic individuals.

🔹 Depression Treatment Study
Autistic teens ages 12–17 experiencing symptoms of depression may be eligible to participate in a study evaluating a therapy designed specifically for autistic adolescents. The study includes 12 weekly therapy sessions and research visits. There is no cost to participate. Families may receive up to $150 for completing assessment visits.

🔹 Depression Treatment Feedback Study
Autistic teens ages 12–17 and their parents/caregivers can help researchers improve a depression treatment by reviewing materials and sharing feedback. This study does not involve receiving therapy. Individuals may receive up to $50 for participating.

🔹 SPARK Autism Research Study
People of all ages with a professional autism diagnosis can participate in this nationwide study. Participation can be completed online and includes questionnaires and a saliva sample for genetic research. In-person support is also available through the Stony Brook research team.

Interested in Learning More?
Contact the Autism and Neurodiversity Lab at (631) 638-3819 or autismandneurodiversitylab@gmail.com, or scan the QR code to complete a brief research interest form.  A member of the research team will follow up with you.

Eligibility requirements apply. Participation is voluntary.

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